Q: When do we boycott?

Yesterday, I read a post written by diversity and inclusion thought-leader and friend of The Winters Group, Howard Ross, that posed this very question. My short answer to this question is: When we want to.

Here’s my long answer, though…

We boycott when we want to be heard, feel seen, see change, feel powerful, be acknowledged and affirmed. And that should be okay—not questioned.

In some ways, I think I may have been triggered by the question posed in the post. My ‘whole self,’ Brittany, the black woman, black mother, black millennial, black socioeconomically advantaged, cisgendered & heterosexual privileged advocate, couldn’t help but (for lack of better words) feel some type of way. I consider myself an advocate—I don’t take my access, influence, and platform lightly. That said, I try to be intentional in centering and prioritizing those most marginalized in my approach and orientation to this work. Certainly, I am not perfect, but I am learning. I do not believe I have all the answers, but I am critical. I share this as a preface and broader context into why I will never be comfortable with narratives that center and prioritize corporations and those ‘otherwise privileged,’ over the ‘least of these.’

From my point of view, taking a formal stance against how [marginalized] communities express their resistance and power is privileged.  I think insinuating that their response is “premature” or “emotional” is undermining and dismissive. I think assuming that someone who boycotts [or engages in any form of resistance] doesn’t want to engage in dialogue is flawed. I do not believe people resist because they don’t want to have the conversations. I believe they resist [or boycott] when they don’t feel heard, when they feel ignored or as though they won’t have equal footing in the conversation. Resistance [in this case, boycotting] is one example of the power in the collective.

We boycott when we want to be heard, feel seen, see change, feel powerful, be acknowledged and affirmed. And that should be okay—not questioned. Click To Tweet

I observed similar pushback in the mainstream when Monique, a black woman and comedian, called for a boycott of Netflix in an effort to broaden awareness of how race and gender biases impact pay equity. Many dismissed her concerns as unreasonable, insulted her character, challenged her credentials and immediately came to Netflix’ defense. Like, why?

At the end of the day, Starbucks, Netflix [or any corporation for that matter] do not need our advocacy. They don’t need to be centered or ‘saved.’ We don’t need to run down their long lists of good deeds and strides towards equity and inclusion, in direct response to [marginalized] communities affirming their power and speaking their truth. It is reminiscent of the “But, I’m one of the good guys” narratives we all too often hear in conversations that critique the broader systemic effects of sexism and racism. Those rebuts are unnecessary, they are distractions and only seek to serve and protect the organizations, those in power, the dominant narrative.

I am not boycotting Starbucks, but I will stand for and support those who choose to. As a matter of fact, many of those who are, have encouraged people to replace Starbucks with black owned cafes/coffee shops (like Dovecote Café in Baltimore, MD, which is where I am as I write this post). Who are we to say that its wrong? Who are we to call it emotional or premature?

That said, it is very possible to support Starbucks’ choices since the incident AND also affirm the choices of those boycotting. There is room for both. I mean, if Starbucks can ‘work hard at diversity’ AND still profit from the prison-industrial complex (not going there, but going there), then there’s clearly room for complexity and nuance, here.

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